Confusion is a hiding place.
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Confusion is a hiding place.
Can you feel the truth of that, in its bald, terrifying simplicity?
Confusion is painful. Maddeningly painful.
You watch yourself tread over the same terrain again and again, and again. Circle the same possibilities. Confront the same challenges.
And there does not appear to be an exit.
(If there were an exit, wouldn’t you have taken it by now ? . . .)
So, you keep looking for clarity (because if you can get clear—if you can figure it out—then you’ll be able to move forward). And you keep experiencing confusion (because you can’t seem to get clear).
Because confusion is also safe. It is familiar. It’s a shroud you unwittingly weave around yourself, a womb of protection against inevitable loss and grief and fear—and the force of clarity that propels you into the unknown.
Clarity is powerful. It’s beautiful, peaceful and expansive.
It allows you to act from a place of peaceful certainty—and experience transformation that feels like a miracle.
It is also vulnerable. Because there is a decided lack of hiding in clarity. It propels you forward—and not everything, or everyone, will come with you.
No one teaches you how to navigate that.
So, you fear you’ll be left feeling alone—and vulnerable, imagining yourself abandoned, chastised, destitute. But that’s what your fear tells you. It’s not the (breathtakingly beautiful) truth about clarity.
Clarity—and the change it compels—rarely is the extreme uncleaving that your fear would have you believe.
It is an opening and an evolution. It’s miraculous, really.
It invites deeper intimacy and understanding, with yourself and those dear to you. And, it is often as gentle as it is direct. (It’s your fear that is harsh and demanding. Clarity is like a warm bath.)
For my clients, the willingness to be clear—and to be vulnerable and visible in it (when it felt like everything was at stake)—has reaped concrete and miraculous rewards—in forms and ways they could not previously imagine.
The heart of the work we do together is untangle that maddeningly stubborn (big, sometimes unknown) thing that’s keeping you going around and around in confusion (or uncertainty or chaos or fear)—at its root.
Gently. Immediately. Permanently.
(In exactly the way that’s right for you.)
I have a space available to work with you to do this 1:1.
But first we need to get clear on what’s keeping you from being clear:
What is the root of your confusion?
And what do you need to (finally) untangle it—and set yourself free?
Click here to schedule a free, 15-minute practice together, and let’s get you clear on that.
I’ll see you there.
I would not have dared to hope for the things that have changed in my life because of this work.
I don’t know what has happened. But my whole fucking life has changed.
Saying ‘yes’ was one of the most consequential decisions of my life.
When I open my mouth now, the truth just pours out.
Clarity, that cannot be ignored, continues to move me forward. And that has shifted everything. (I would have bet everything I had that it would have destroyed everything instead).
Relationships that felt toxic, insurmountable and inescapable suddenly shifted. Situations that had no clear possible solution, suddenly gave way to new, wildly unexpected outcomes. My income increased significantly (without our focus and seemingly effortlessly).
When we started working together, I was so terrified of the unknown. But the truth is not scary. It’s liberating. And the only thing that got burnt down to the ground (despite my fear) were the barriers to it.
Now it’s terrifying to think that I might have never known what was possible if I hadn’t worked with Rebecca.
Her questions unravel years of illusion in a moment.
Nothing short of magic has happened, and I cannot explain it.
The space she holds is clean and clear (no ego, frustration, projection or prescription), and the pace is exactly right for creating safety and dramatic results, at the same time.
None of the other work I’ve done has touched this.
If she is still taking clients, do anything you can to work with her.